Memory Deer
These deer make meaningful gifts for anyone.
They measure 20 inches from the heel to the top of the head.
In a sitting position, they measure 14.5 inches from the bottom to the top of the head.
The stomach measures 10 inches tall x 10.5 inches wide—perfect if you're wondering whether a T-shirt logo will fit.
Compatible Fabrics
These deer can be made from:
Flannels
Button-down shirts
Pants
Uniforms/work shirts
Dress shirts
Pajama bottoms
Sheets
Fabrics That Require a Stabilizer Purchase
Some fabrics need stabilizer for structural support. These include:
T-shirts
Golf polos
Old and heavily worn fabrics
Chiffon dresses
Housecoats/dusters
Thermals
Knits
Heavily worn fabrics
Jersey
Velvet
Thin or see-through fabrics
You can purchase the stabilizer option in my shop for an additional $15 per deer.
If you’re sending these fabrics, please purchase the listing: "Memory Deer Made from Polos, T-Shirts, and Stretchy Fabrics."
Deer Appearance & Customization
Each deer is handmade, and no two will look alike. The fabric you send will determine the deer’s final look:
Firm fabrics (e.g., denim) → Sturdy, solid deer
Soft fabrics (e.g., sweatshirts) → Cuddly, softer deer
If you’re unsure whether a fabric will work, please message me!
Fabrics That Are Not Recommended
Leather jackets
Blazers
Down-feather coats
Fur coats
Collars, Bows & Additional Details
Collars and button strips are only added if the clothing has them.
Sweatshirts, pants, and blankets will receive a bow instead.
You can request no bow or collar if you prefer.
If the fabric is too busy, I can add solid-colored fabric to the feet and ears to make embroidery stand out—please request this option.
If you want a specific bow color, you can either provide another fabric/ribbon or message me to request a color.
Note: The deer’s nose is black. If you're sending black fabric, the nose may not stand out.
Embroidery Options
Embroidery can be placed on:
Chest – Name, birthdate, and passing date
Foot – Up to 3 rows of 7 characters each
Poem Option:
At this time, the only poem available is:
"This is a shirt I used to wear. Whenever you hold it, know that I am there."
If the fabric pattern is too busy, the poem may not be visible. I can add matching solid fabric to the feet and ears to help it stand out.
Please double-check the embroidery details before submitting. If an embroidered piece needs to be redone due to customer error, a $15 charge applies, and fabric may not be available for a replacement.
How to Provide Embroidery Details
Write your desired embroidery in the "Message to Seller" section at checkout.
If including a note in the package, type it and send a picture of the note via Etsy.
Important: When purchasing embroidery for both feet, list the right foot first.
For example:
Right foot: Bob
Left foot: Jones
Clothing Size Requirements
XL long-sleeve or short-sleeve shirt → Makes 1 deer.
If a collared shirt is provided, one deer will have a collar, and the second deer will have a bow made from the same fabric.
A sweater will receive a matching ribbon.
Large long-sleeve or short-sleeve shirt → Makes 1 deer.
Medium, small, or smaller shirts → Not enough for one deer.
You can provide multiple shirts to complete a deer or purchase additional fabric.
Care Instructions
Memory items are made from washed and worn clothing, so they can be fragile.
These are display items, not toys.
Please wash clothing before sending.
Do not machine wash the completed deer.
Spot clean only.
Ordering Process
1. Purchase your item.
2. I will send you directions and the shipping address for your clothing.
3. Once I receive your clothing, I will confirm receipt and provide a ship-by date.
4. You can keep track of your shipment details or send me a picture of your tracking information.
If you have any questions, feel free to message me—I respond quickly! Also, check my shop announcements for additional updates.
Turnaround Time
We currently have a 70-day turnaround from the date we receive your clothing.
Thank you for visiting my shop!